How to be Popular – Personal Development
Many questions for your personal development
Sometimes, it’s best to ask yourself why you want to utilize personal development techniques to become popular in the first place. Why do you want to become popular? Is there a special type of group you’re trying to impress? Once you can answer most of the natural questions that ask why you want what you are striving for, then you are ready to go further in your quest of personal development in becoming popular.
Try mind mapping a personal mission statement to help you design and achieve your ideal life. When you are uncertain where your life is heading, or when you doubt your own abilities, this mission statement will remind you: who you are, what you are determined to achieve, and what you have already accomplished to date. See the mind map I created to go with this article.
From a personal mission statement comes a plan that keeps you on track, regularly reminded, and a source for inspiration. It’s a significant personal compass, and one that you can carry with you at all times.
Be Comfortable and Confident
One of the first things to remember is that confident body language can often help you be more at ease with yourself and who you are. Like ducks to water, people will flock to you when you exude confidence~Like ducks to water, people will flock to you when you exude confidence}. Remember, the happier you are with yourself, the happier others will be with you too.
Your Style and Look
Just as Picasso, Da Vinci, and Rembrandt crafted and molded masterpieces that incorporated themselves, so must your personal image be carved, painted, shaded, and shaped the best way that represents you. Contrary to what most people would believe, constantly switching up the style of your appearance seems rather desperate for popularity, rather than cemented in confidence of one’s self. For example, a nice short hair cut could do wonders for an individual to bring out their eyes, or smile. These simple changes can give you a real confidence boost, but ensure it is a look that best represents who you are.
Dress with Pride – Clean and Crisp. So, dress like an apple
I remember my elders telling me that an apple a day keeps the doctor away. I often wonder why we haven’t utilized all this revolutionary information? Why do we refuse to take action? These questions can only be answered by poor choices in habit. The healthier we are, the better we feel. If you feel great, chances are you will look great too. people are attracted to those who look healthy. Washing your face twice daily with a soap that fits your skin type will help even better. Need I mention deodorant, a comb through the hair, and a toothbrush to the teeth will aid in anyones quest for popularity? I suppose I just did.
Be Passionate
Throughout the years, America, and many other countries, has created movies that dazzle us and shoots us toward some form of personal development. They wrap us in a choke hold of suspense, or they drown us in admiration for a fictional characters plights, victories, and lessons learned. One common characteristic all of the heroes in those movies have, is passion. Their passion is the reason our breaths become baited with anticipation of their triumph. These story bound people have what most viewers feel they lack.
If we focus on some real life characters with passion we see why Abraham Lincoln, John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, George Lucas, Michael Jackson, Truman Capote, Fred Astaire, and Princess Diana were so popular. In regards to their passion for what they achieved, they astounded many, and bewildered the rest. Do something you love, but have been too afraid to try. With a great spirit and strong passion to share, the more others will want to share with you.
Hesitate To Shine No More
Your gifts and talents should not be hidden from the world. Don’t be afraid to share your ideas with others. By showing all facets of who you are, your knowledge, and your capacity to learn what you didnt know, will cause people to forge relationships with you, almost instantly! The more you shine, the more confidence you have, the more popular you become. Your name will spread faster. Beware of the vanity, arrogant, side effects that can affect most individuals who play the popularity game. Be humble, and open to new ideas, new people, and new ways to express your thoughts creatively.
Talk It Up
Make sure to keep talking. You certainly don’t want to become a chatter box that doesn’t know how to be quiet. This is the type of talking that is comfortable and reassuring. When you speak, try to make a point, or discover information. After all, that is what communication is all about.
Be adventurous, talk to somebody new each day. Then move on and next week try talking to two new people daily. The next week, try to talk to three, etc. You need to gradually over time, (and practice makes perfect) feel more comfortable with chatting with anyone.
Do Something New
Try to venture out into the unknown and familiarize yourself with it. Many times, we seek refuge within the comfort zones of our habitat. We cling to our environment, our culture, our personal forms of entertainment; but trying something new, more than once a decade, is one of the best ways to gain popularity.
Bear in mind that you should only participate if you really want to, not because you only want the attention for it. Make sure that when you do try something new, its because you have an interest in trying it out. Its like ensuring you can swim before holding your breath under water.
Oh, and never show off when you do participate in things youve never tried. These things could be attending a writing class, joining a short term business class, enjoying the theater arts, or celebrating with a wonderful dinner, glass of wine, and chat by the fireplace. Make sure its around people who enjoy doing the things you havent tried, and build a bond with them (even if youll never, say, attend an Opera again). This can only help you to become more popular.
Go With the Flow
Do you remember when you where younger and you discovered a talent you had, one that was magically given to you in the blink of an eye, and you happened to master within two to five minutes? But do you remember talking the talent to someone, a teacher, mom, dad, sibling, or grandparent, and having your talent completely flop and not work. I did it so many times before, youd muffle through embarrassed eyes. Well, you shouldnt have been embarrassed, because we all have gone through this. My talent show was ruined because I overthought it. We concentrate so hard on getting it right and not messing up that we end up doing just that.
Just like in the analogy used in the previous paragraph, so must you relate it to the world of popularity? Embrace new ideas, be open to new styles, cultures, etc after all the key to popularity is about you being true to yourself while being open enough to accept new things. Try something at least once, thats within your moral and ethical boundaries, and if you dont like it then dont do it again. This will enhance your level of personal development in gaining popularity. The people you meet, and the friends that you make along your way to social stardom will send your spirit soaring through the sky, a shinning star, bright with status, regard, and esteem.
ROYAL WEDDING – 1981
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